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Helping your kids through the divorce process

You know your decision to divorce will impact every member of your family. Sometimes, a divorce can be detrimental to the mental and emotional well-being of the kids, and this is why you want to do everything in your power to minimize the disruption and upheaval they may feel. There are things you can do that will allow you to make this transition better and easier for them.

To prioritize the mental and emotional needs of your kids, you will have set aside your own temporary feelings. This not easy, especially if you are in the middle of custody disputes and fights over finances. It can help to remember that it is most important to end up with a final order that provides stability and security for your kids for years to come.

What can you do?

One of the first concerns you may have to address is how to tell your kids of your divorce. This will not be a pleasant conversation, but it will go better when you are straightforward and honest. Kids need to know what to expect over the next weeks and months as the process moves forward, and you can hear their feedback on what they think the custody arrangement should look like. 

It is also crucial to assure your kids that your divorce is not their fault. They need to know that they will still have love and support from both parents, even though you may be at odds at the moment. Keep talking to your kids, listening to them and helping them understand what is happening. Fear of the unknown can make an already difficult situation worse. 

Get outside help

Prioritize the mental health of your kids. If you think it would be helpful for them, seek the guidance of a counselor or therapist. This is a hard time for the youngest members of the family, and speaking with someone can help them deal with the complicated emotions they are feeling.

You will also find it beneficial to discuss your custody and visitation concerns with an experienced New Jersey family law attorney. These are matters that will impact you and your kids for years to come, and knowledgeable guidance can prove invaluable. Before you agree to terms or make any important choices, you will want to consider the long-term implications first and how they will affect your kids.