Divorce is a challenging journey, especially when children are part of the equation. The emotional strain can be overwhelming. But amidst this, one of the most significant decisions you’ll make is about child custody arrangements. This decision will determine where your children will live and how much time they’ll spend with each parent. Understanding the various custody options and how New Jersey courts approach these decisions can empower you to create a parenting plan that puts your children’s well-being and stability first.
Here’s what you should know about child custody arrangements for today’s families.
New Jersey courts prioritize the “best interests of the child” when determining custody. This involves considering several factors, including the child’s age, emotional needs, relationship with each parent, and the ability of each parent to provide a safe and nurturing environment. There are two primary types of physical child custody in New Jersey:
- Sole physical custody: One parent has primary responsibility for the child’s physical care, while the other parent has visitation rights (parenting time).
- Joint physical custody: Both parents share physical custody of the child, with the child splitting their time between each household according to a court-ordered schedule.
While both of these can present challenges, when you are willing to work together, you and your ex can create a positive way forward for you and your family.
Factors influencing custody decisions
Several factors influence the type of custody arrangement a New Jersey court may order. Here are two key aspects to consider:
- The age and needs of your children: Younger children often benefit from frequent and shorter visits with each parent, while older children may handle longer stretches of time in each household. When determining the most appropriate custody arrangement, the court will consider the child’s maturity level, extracurricular activities, and social needs.
- The relationship between parents and children: The court will evaluate the quality of the existing relationship between each parent and the child. Factors like a strong emotional bond, consistent involvement in the child’s life, and a history of providing for the child’s physical and emotional needs will be considered.
Creating a workable child custody arrangement can be complex. Having an experienced family law attorney by your side can help ensure the courts consider all relevant factors and develop a plan that prioritizes your children’s well-being while protecting your parental rights.